I have to admit, these have not been the best weeks of my life. Neck and shoulder pains were rearing their ugly heads. The resulst were severe pain in that neck and headaches that on some days made it impossible to even get out of bed. On days like these even my belief in positive thinking is stretched to it's limits and I have to admit that on one day it completely failed. After that day it was time to act!
I sat myself down and started thinking about solutions. Also talked to some good friends to cheer myself up. Fact is that I am getting more headaches in the mornings now and getting up extremely sore. I know my matras is a good one and not too old so I am ruling that out. Then we come to cushion and that I am not sure off. So time for research. I have included a youtube video I found. [Sorry it is in Dutch but maybe the images speak for itself] It tought me something I did not know. I thought that I had a healthy sleeping habit sleeping on my side and using a cushion with neck support. But.. my cushion has been outdated by new technology and sleeping on my side is not as healthy as I thought it was. When you sleep your body relaxes and you sink into a 3/4 belly position which puts a lot of strain on your neck muscles. Best thing is to sleep with a sleep rol which supports your knees and your upper arm. This way your neck stays in alligment with the rest of your body. I tried it out with an old cushion just to support my upper arm and the difference was remarkable! Already it gave pain relief.
So now I am going to get new cushions as soon as possible. What I want to share here is: know your body! If a new kind of pain joins, do not accept it without research. Be a detective and try to figure out a solution. Either alone, with friends or with therapists and doctors. [never do something invasive without talking to a doctor first!] Even with older pain, technology never stops. Keep searching and willing to try new remedies. And never give up hope! Life is too good.
Safe Haven Coaching offers general coaching an counseling through email and messenger/skype. I also offer the following specialities: I coach highly senstive people who are 'bothered' by noises, strong emotions and the moods of others to deal with these situations differently. This way it is easer to function better during work and social interactions and 'space' is created to develop the joys of being sensitive. I also coach people with cronic pain problems who have troubles integrating the pain in their lives. Through exercises and coachingtalks/e-mails I offer new insights and as a result you will have more energy to spend on the nice things in life. The therapy is very goal orientated and geared towards your wants.
Voor wie is Safe Haven Coaching? Ik bied algemene coaching en counseling zowel f2f [ op lokatie] als via email en messenger/skype. Verder ben ik gespecialiseerd in het coachen van hooggevoeligen die 'last hebben' van geluiden, te sterke gevoelens en stemmingen van hun omgeving om hier beter mee om te gaan. Hierdoor kun je beter functioneren in werk en relaties en ontstaat er ruimte om de voordelen van je gevoeligheid te ontwikkelen. Verder begeleid ik mensen met chronische pijn, die moeite hebben deze pijn een plaats in hun leven te geven. Door oefeningen en coachingsgesprekken/e-mails bied ik inzicht in de situatie en daardoor komt er meer energie voor de leuke dingen van het leven.
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